{"id":26,"date":"2025-06-08T22:18:22","date_gmt":"2025-06-08T22:18:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thenewsbreeze.com\/?p=26"},"modified":"2025-06-08T22:18:22","modified_gmt":"2025-06-08T22:18:22","slug":"i-refused-to-help-my-daughter-during-a-medical-emergency-after-what-she-did-to-us","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thenewsbreeze.com\/?p=26","title":{"rendered":"I Refused to Help My Daughter During a Medical Emergency After What She Did to Us"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>We received a heartfelt note from one of our readers, who shared details regarding a difficult family situation. It\u2019s a predicament that many parents can relate to: a moment of dread or indecision drives a breach between loved ones. In her narrative, she discusses a decision she made during a trying moment and the enormous guilt she now feels for not being present when her kid needed her the most.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>I am a 58-year-old m. My daughter, Hannah, is 32, and we haven\u2019t spoken in years, but my husband and I live about a half-hour away from her.<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.shutterstock.com\/image-photo\/happy-excited-senior-mom-adult-600nw-2412728089.jpg\" alt=\"83+ Thousand Caring Old Mother Royalty-Free Images, Stock Photos &amp; Pictures  | Shutterstock\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">For illustrative purpose only<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Last week, something unexpected occurred. Hannah contacted me in tears and was plainly in anguish. \u201cI need to go to the hospital right now!\u201d she shouted. I quickly protested and said no\u2014he couldn\u2019t handle three little children at his age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She fell silent for a time, and I suggested she take her infant and toddlers with her or ask a neighbor instead. She begged, \u201cMom, I am in so much pain, and the kids are sleeping. \u201cI don\u2019t want to drag them to the ER.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I felt overwhelmed and frustrated. Old memories bubbled up. Years ago, when I needed support during my recovery from surgery, Hannah hadn\u2019t come through for me. She apologized back then, but the memory still stung. When she asked me why I couldn\u2019t come, I reminded her that many years ago she did the same to me, and she went quiet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\u201cYou\u2019re being dramatic,\u201d I said. \u201cYou\u2019re an adult. You need to handle this.\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s when my husband, who had been listening, intervened. \u201cLet me speak to her,\u201d he said. I told him not to, stressing that he couldn\u2019t physically care for the children. But he did not listen. He called Hannah and said, \u201cDon\u2019t worry, I\u2019m coming over.\u201d Just get to the hospital and care for yourself.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We received a heartfelt note from one of our readers, who shared details regarding a difficult family situation. It\u2019s a predicament that many parents can relate to:&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thenewsbreeze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thenewsbreeze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thenewsbreeze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thenewsbreeze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thenewsbreeze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=26"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thenewsbreeze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27,"href":"https:\/\/thenewsbreeze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26\/revisions\/27"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thenewsbreeze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/12"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thenewsbreeze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=26"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thenewsbreeze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=26"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thenewsbreeze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=26"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}